Saturday, 12 January 2013

I want to serve India but When??


During the course of my induction at IIT Kharagpur there was a session by entrepreneurship cell and during that session Prof Dhurbes Biswas gave a presentation,  which was more a motivational speech rather presentation. During that he shared an incident with us, a very common incident... He said, once a friend of his asked, “ hey Biswas I want to be an entrepreneur but I don’t have any plans, I have thought a lot about it but can’t find anything on which I could work, give me some ideas”.  Well interesting part was answer of Prof Biswas!!
Prof. Biswas replied, “You must be kidding me, go outside the puri gate of IIT campus and thousands of opportunities are waiting for you, every problem is an opportunity to work on and problems are abundant outside campus.”
Second point he raised was the mission of IIT Kharagpur , “Dedicated to the service of nation”. He has a question to all IITians, ex, present and future, “Have you served the nation or will you serve the nation”?
Now let’s not be myopic, let’s consider every Indian. What I have come across is that there are lots of people waiting to serve the society …and I am pretty sure they will keep on waiting. Some are waiting to earn  a lot of money which they will spend on welfare of society, Some are waiting for opportunities, Some are waiting to clear civil services so that as administrators  they can serve society, some are searching problems, some are asking when is the right time…and list goes on. I don’t doubt their will to serve but they are simply not sure how and when to do it?
Well I am not going to answer those questions as I find myself totally incapable of preaching that, let’s leave that to our religious gurus. What I am going to do is share three true stories with you. Three stories which I have come across at different point of time in various newspaper and I am pretty sure these will answer some of your questions.
Story 1.
It’s  an story of an IITian. He used to study in IIT Kanpur. He was doing his B Tech and special thing about him was that He was a 10 pointer (Gosh..10 pointer in IIT... Superman…heading to 1 crore package job J). Interesting part is that he was a through simple guy, always used to wear kurta and payjama. Simple talks and simple living. A very humble person. Now do you know what he did during his placement season?
He opted out of placements  and joined an NGO!! His package when I read article was a meager 25 thousand rupees a month. And his less capable classmates were earning thousands of dollars in Uncle Sam’s Country. 
Moral of the story: I don’t know, it’s for you to decide. But one thing is for sure even NGOs and organizations serving society also need good students and intelligent people. The IITian being discussed used his intelligence to serve people and make an NGO effective. As far as I know still he wears Kurta payjama and lives a very minimalist life.

Story 2.
To narrate this story I need a little bit of context setting. If you are Indian you must have seen Rickshaw wallah and if you are not Daughter/Son of a millionaire then you must have boarded one. Do you know from where these rickshaw wallah get their rickshaw? Well, some fortunate ones have their own but mostly rent it for 30-40 or 50 rupees a day (Well it depends upon market). Now just imagine,  for years he has to keep on paying these 40 or 50 odd rupees to owners of rickshaw and these poor rickshaw wallah will never be able to save enough to buy one. This is a vicious circle.
Now this is a story of man from Uttar Pradesh who changed the lives of these rickshaw wallah. He started giving loans to these rickshaw wallahs to buy their own rickshaw. And rickshaw wallah had to pay a daily installment of Rs 20/-. And in 10 months of time rickshaw belonged to them.  They were owners of rickshaw and even for 10 months they had pay half the amount which they were supposed to pay to rickshaw owners from whom they used to take rickshaws on rent. Now with their own rickshaw they can better take care of themselves and their families.
Moral of the story: It’s so obvious sir that even a single word to tell moral would be wastage of words and your time.

Story 3.
This a story of a village and a teacher who lives there.  The village is Ganesh Pura of Maharashtra. Now what teacher did is that he asked whole village to paint the walls of their houses pink. And he arranged for Rs 20000/-. Villager gave ten thousand and rest ten thousand was contributed by teacher himself. Using this money he got all the pink walls filled with lessons of children curriculum, new development in science, thoughts of great people etc. Now Study is not a burden for children in Ganesh Pura as they study all the time even while playing. Even elders are updated with recent development in society. 

Moral of the story: You are smart enough to infer but one thing we must say that if we have teachers like the one mentioned above in all the villages of India then 100% literacy rate would be easily achieved.
Now I hope if you really want to serve the society then most of your questions have been answered. If you are still wondering then maybe I will share some more stories with you next time. But friends there is no right time to serve as now is the time. Even a small contribution can make a huge difference to lives of many. It’s not magnitude of money but magnitude of your will power which will make difference. Even if you can’t find a new way then just try to emulate what others have been doing. There is no harm in copying if it is for a noble cause. Yes we are busy with writing codes for likes of Infys, mining excels for likes of Mckinsey but still we have enough time to make a change. Even if we go by neutral figures then we have 2 capable people in India for a poor one.  And 2 people can easily change the life of one. If we start acting now then I guess we will not have problems in India!!

Saturday, 8 December 2012

Dedicated to you Major Ashish Roy...You will always be in our hearts!!


Once Steve Jobs said, “Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important thing I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life, because almost everything, all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure, these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.”
And the irony of life is that we keep on running away from this fact till death takes us away from earth. Running away is still better because at least we acknowledge the death.  But the truth is, most of us forget that we will dead not in years but may be in very next moment.
2 days ago I came across very sad news of demise of a school friend of mine Major Ashish Roy …A through gentleman.  This news made me realize once again fickleness of life. Me, my dear ones….it is just a matter of moment before we lose them all…
I would like to share the biggest learning What Major Ashish Roy taught me in my life. Once during school time we were discussing about our future and all of a sudden he said, ‘’ he wants to join Army and he will join’’.  I was in laugh and said even if you are serious, would your parents let you join ? (For information he was from a very affluent background). I remember his statement, “Vikas if I want to do something then I will do it and nobody can stop me from doing what I want to do”. And till date I know selected few who did in their life what they always wanted to do. Major Ashish Roy was one of those gems.  I don’t know why god took him away from us? I have always heard good things happen to good people.  But then I have also heard that God also needs good people.  Definitely the later  statement proved to be true in Major Roy’s  case.
After school when some were confused about  what to do, some didn't know what to do, some were following the path their parents set for them and worst some choose to flow with time and what luck offered to them . But Major Ashish Roy was an exception because he knew what to do and he wrote his own life and his own path. The most important thing we can learn from his life is that ‘Follow you heart it will always lead you to right path’.
Thousand moments come in our life when we have to make a choice and we choose not to make the one we have always wanted.  We either choose the convenient option or let luck decide it. Till when we will keep on taking the path of convenience. Death is knocking on our doors…..but alas we forget this very thing. We prefer to go with the waves always thinking we have life ahead of us?
There is something called wish list in our life which is a proof how guaranteed we take our lives.    Friends,  there is no time for a wish list. If you have a wish and for god grace a pious one  then go ahead make it true now. You will not be left to make tick mark ‘achieved’ on the wish list. Keep your wish list blank my friends. It is one life and a few moments is all we have.  Death is the only certainty we have, Face it!
Stop running away…More you are running more you are getting close to death….
You think so much before acting, family friends, society and the list goes on…
Just for a few moment think you are dead….yes you are dead!!  Now think what difference is  it going to make in the world. The society and its convention about which you were thinking about, do they care about your death.  All the embarrassment you were thinking of do they make any sense if you are dead. I will leave answer to you. Now you are alive and if you are still thinking of all those shackles then break free of them. This world is a battle ground and you are a warrior and it is your time to make a difference. Go, Change, make your mark and fight till death…Follow your heart.
Because everyday millions of chicken are cut to decorate our dining plate and they make no difference. You are a human being and it is one chance bestowed upon you to do what you want to do. It is god’s life and he can take it away from us anytime…The mantra is you can be dead….any moment…
Follow the mantra my friend Major Ashish Roy gave to us, ‘Follow your heart’.  If you want to do something then nobody can stop you!!
RIP my friend Major Ashish Roy, You have made a mark in this world and wherever you are you must be watching that this society cares even when you are not here. You accomplished your mission on this earth. You will in our hearts till death make us meet again….